About Me

Cassandra Lam (she/her) is a neurodivergent Vietnamese-Chinese-American somatic healing facilitator guiding tired and trauma-impacted organizations, communities, and individuals to rest.

Cassandra Lam (she/her) is a neurodivergent Vietnamese-Chinese-American somatic healing facilitator guiding tired and trauma-impacted organizations and communities to rest. Her mission is to uplift rest as a necessary modality for collective healing and social change by:

In March 2021, she began sharing Collective Rest, a guided relaxation practice that soothes the nervous system for deep states of rest and recovery, at virtual healing circles where hundreds of people gathered to grieve, together. These sessions had a profound effect on the community, leading to invitations to partner with organizations like World Wildlife Fund, Planned Parenthood, Seatgeek, and more.

Cassandra is rooted in a rich lineage of teachers: Thich Nhat Hanh, Tricia Hersey, adrienne maree brown, Bayo Akomolafe, Sophie Strand, Alice Wong, Mia Mingus, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Audre Lorde, bell hooks, and Octavia Butler. Their teachings inform her compassionate approach, which centers on examining the cultural erasure of rest, integrating the spiritual and scientific pillars of rest, and helping people discover what their bodies need to feel safe enough to slow down.

As an autistic complex trauma survivor and daughter of refugees living with chronic pain and invisible disabilities, she is passionate about cultivating community care spaces where love and liberation are the dominant culture. Southern California born, New York City raised, and now nestled in the Blue Ridge Mountains, Cassandra is grateful to call the unceded lands of the Cherokee (Asheville, NC) home.

Previously, Cassandra spent 5 years building The Cosmos, a community of 13K+ AAPI women and femmes globally. As CEO and Co-Founder, she led partnerships and the development of community care programs centering Asian women in America, which included sold-out retreats, group programs, and “The Cosmos Summit”, a 300-person conference in Brooklyn. Her expertise on AAPI identity and mental health has drawn invitations to speak and facilitate workshops for companies across the country. The Cosmos has been featured in The New York Times, Fast Company, Bustle, Paper Mag, and more.

Biography

“I attended the Collective Rest session for Grief in May and had a deeply introspective and impactful experience. I attended a few weeks after learning my mom passed away.

Since that session, I've told EVERYONE about it and had been looking out for a follow-up for it. I was just about to give up on it when I got the email for an upcoming session at work and couldn't click 'Accept' fast enough.

Thank you Cassandra, and the team who organized this experience. I am deeply appreciative and am hoping we get more of these in the future. They've definitely made a positive impact on my personal life, and work life.”

— Collective Rest Participant